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Why put up with business
nonsense?
Q. A recent tragedy I experienced has changed my
outlook at work. I look around my workplace at the backstabbing
and senseless uproar, and I think, "Life is too short to put
up with a mean-spirited and petty environment where the devious
folks get the glory." I think I want a career change.
Do you
meet a lot of people who feel this way?
A. We don't know the numbers, but you are not unique.
We get to talk to a lot of people from a lot of
organizations, and some of them report that the work environment has become more
negative, ruthless, and selfish in recent years. This, as the PR
department cranks out stories about what a team-based love-fest everyone is
having. This is NOT universal, but a significant number.
Surveys come out from time to time saying many people would like
to do something different. Some people feel they are on a
treadmill, getting insufficient or inappropriate recognition.
They would like to earn honest feedback from work that benefits
other people.
As we age, it's natural to occasionally reflect on
our own mortality, along with what is really important. However,
avoid making a hasty decision.
If there is any way you can
improve the atmosphere in your own organization, think of how that
would help others! It is quite likely that other people feel just as you do.
Consult a physician to make sure you aren't
clinically depressed. Also, a member of the clergy can provide a good
sounding board.
Are you knocking yourself out trying to win the
approval of persons who will never give it? If so, try to convince yourself to stop worrying about it!
(Yes, this is difficult, because the urge for approval comes from a non-logical
part of our heads.)
Take the time you deserve to plan
ahead. Set confidential, personal goals that YOU think are
worthwhile.
Attraction to the future is a healthier force than
repulsion from the present.
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